I found myself pondering over the nature of the world one night while looking at my friends list on Facebook. The following thoughts occurred to me and swiftly dove down a rabbit hole. So into Wonderland again we go:
So, take a minute to remember what you originally agreed upon, or the relationship you held with that person. Then maybe find another commonality. Maybe even ask a question or two.
CAUTION: Don’t immediately get offended if you don’t get the answer YOU were WANTING to hear.
Instead, try to understand that there are GOING to be differences. It’s what makes us all peoples. We are all individuals. and you know what: no matter what generation we are….we’re all “snowflakes.”
So…. Really wouldn’t that mean the US is in a weirdly warm Ice Age? Maybe we should all take a minute to thaw out, remember how to say hello to our neighbor, and remember how to take care of one another.
We are ALL going to ALL have differences. Chances are there’s a thing or two you don’t even agree with your SIGNIFICANT OTHER on. and odds are: You’re sleeping with them….. So…. Maybe for all those people out there that are your friends, but you don’t you know… sleep with… Let’s start understanding that the differences we have from one another are simply what makes each of us an individual.
As individuals we each have a right to a GOOD STANDARD of LIVING. EI: GOOD Healthy AFFORDABLE food. Healthcare for ALL. Health is NOT something to be hoarded and only afforded to the rich. I don’t care WHAT “insurance” (see also: pre, during, and post payment plans.) system you set up to go with it. Just make sure it’s AFFORDABLE (does not bankrupt upon needing to go to the hospital. Leaves one with enough money in bank account to buy food after going to the doctors… no matter how often they need to go to the doctors. Chronic Health Conditions suck enough as it is guys. Stop making people PAY MORE ON TOP OF IT because of it. That’s fucking cruel. Knock it off.
EVERYONE has a pre existing condition: It’s called “BEING ALIVE.” By being “ALIVE” one is subject to come in contact with the planet Earth. It’s the rock we live on. Big complicated mess of a thing. So, let’s stop making people pay more to feel HEALTHY. Which is a basic necessity of doing a GOOD JOB at your PROFESSION no matter what job it is you are doing. From the gentle-persons who clean the public restrooms, to the lawyer in the court room and the judges on their “high thrones.”
NO ONE should have to feel ill while performing the duty they are contributing to society. Additionally: if one is too “ill” to perform within your standard: adapt the standard to achieve the highest quality of potential you can enact within a persons in order to gain their truest success, their “illness” aside.
Everyone has the capacity to perform better than the standard of which they hold themselves to.
SO I say to you, truly: Ask MORE of your leaders. Hold them to a higher standard or by all that is for the true progress, get rid of them, and change the system cause it was likely also broken. Adapt the system and break from it the mold who’s standards were for a people of a time long since past.
While we are going this direction and on that topic, can we please all get over the fact that we are all doing different jobs? Guess what. Those of us whom are employed and held to a standard of participation within society to give services back to the society which we are in, in order to obtain funding to purchase the things that our jobs are providing the object and or service and or food stuffs for. Now. We are, those of us whom have been “Given” the 40 hour work week. That’s a lot of hours. I don’t care who you are. That’s a lot of hours guys.
How many of you out there like doing ANYTHING ELSE OTHER THAN WORKING? I would wager quite a few of you. So why is it then that we are expected to spend 40 of the 168 out of the week that there are? Now let’s put that better into perspective. Really these jobs we have expect 16 of our hours minimum. Because they expect us to be getting a “solid 8 hours of sleep” every night. So that’s another 8 hours a day that’s…. 16 hours a day. So now we are at 96 of the 168 hours in a week.
That’s OVER half of the time you are Alive, for a minimum of 40-60 years depending on how long you have to be in the “job market.”
Which is another sort of funny term isn’t it?We’ve all become so obsessed with the notions of “jobs” that there’s a “market” that one must participate in, in order to succeed in society. Rather than simply having a trade and being good at it and having people come to YOU for YOUR service.
Instead we now take our services and beg companies to take us in and take half of the time we’re alive for 40 years. To what? Buy groceries, pay bills, go to the doctor, need a therapist cause we’re dreading going to the doctor because of how much its going to cost and how much you’re going to need to work in order to pay off that one doctors visit, and then that doesn’t even cover rent, and renters insurance for all the shit you buy that you never get to use because you are exahusted from your job and unable to do anything other than buy food, maybe heat it, stuff your face, pass out repeat process until dead. Repeat process until dead. And we “PAY” for this? Fuck them.
I say the whole things fucked. I say the whole thing needs swiping straight off the table. FWOOP! Into the famed circular file!
I say there needs to be a whole lot less “middle men” in everything. If it’s a “middle man” job get rid of it. It’s not necessary in society anymore. Think of all the amazing things we could be researching, doing, playing, pretending, relaxing, enjoying, laying in the sun, having more BBQ’s and less PTA meetings. More weekends at the lake with friends, less board room meetings last minute to close the deal. We could all be doing more all of us around the entire planet.
Isn’t that what we all want then? More TIME to simply enjoy the LIFE that we have been “given?”
No matter whether you believe you got that life from a gift from a god, or the true fact of science that two people boinked and well… here you are. Either way, you are you. Different in every way from every other person on this planet and still a simple human just like the one that passed a minute ago and the one that will be born a minute from now. We’re all people, on this planet, wanting more TIME to enjoy the world that we are on. That’s something we should be able to all agree on.
So you know what, don’t just vote. Start actively participating in the reality you want to be a part of.
Fuck parties, Fuck the current way that all “system’s” have been thought up. Stop caring so much about everyone else’s damned business, and relationships. Is it harming either person? No? Is it harming you? No? Fuck off, leave it alone, it’s not your damned business butt out. BUTT OUT.
Instead, care MORE about the people you call friends and family. They’re the ones that matter. You’re going to disagree on shit, it’s what makes us individuals. That’s it. Every. Single. Human. on this PLANET. Is. An. INDIVIDUAL, with DIFFERENCES, from all the other INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENT HUMANS OUT THERE.
At some point humans, this is going to start sounding really redundant. If you take away all the descriptors from everyone…. you’re left with a bland society that has nothing to care about. If you are given too many descriptors and told to hang onto them with all your might because it’s all you have and!!!!!!!! wait… It is all each. of. us. has. So, where’s the big deal in something that is inherently true about every human being on this planet?
Actively participate in the reality and community you want to be a part of.
Do not force your community on others, instead leave open doors for them to ask questions and better understand (if not agree, or choose to act in similar ways) why you choose to participate in that reality. So will you all please stop trying to figure out if Star Wars or Star Trek is cooler? They both have their merits. But you know what else: other than being in space, and having interactions between beings…. like all of us do every day in our individually snowflakey lives…. they’re completely different then, oh wait, see there it’s already starting to circle again.
You see why this gets hard to talk about? This is how silly this is! This is what they are using to divide us guys.
They are using the fact that we are all different humans who like to live slightly different lives from every other person out there because we all have individual likes and preferences for what we want to do with our bodies and possibly with… each other… with our bodies… that we gotta freak out about it all the time!
Rather than simply being kind to one another. Rather than simply helping one another. Rather than sharing meals, and stories, and culture, with one another.
We are all humans, with past experiences that become our stories that we share with the younger generations. We are all beings that hope the younger generation maybe doesn’t feel some of the bad stuff we did from the mistakes we made. But it’s not our choice. It’s there’s.
Reach out to the lesser known friends you have on Facebook, and the strangers that are your neighbors in apartment living and the neighbors on the streets in neighborhoods. We are all ultimately neighbors, with individualities, with culture that is as varied as our histories and planet is diverse with creatures. Learn from each other, you never know when you’re going to meet your next best and closest friend, or find another culture you truly enjoy.
So remember my snowflakes of many ages: Be Good to One Another.
//End Part 1
((Realized there is a lot more I want to go into but will save that for another day.))